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Tuesday, October 23, 2007

A Couple of My Feelings

Why do people always try to make your business their business? It's like they think they can help you, when you know that you don't need their help. They think that because you're having problems, that that automatically means that you don't have a handle on things. Oh yeah? Well maybe you do have a handle on things. And if you don't, well then hopefully God will put some sense in your head and make you go and talk to someone. If not, then offer your help to a friend, but don't push it.

Also, life is different for everybody, so let them live their life and you go live yours. If they want to skydive for a living, then shut up and ask them if you can come for one ride.

And if you have a problem, don't hide it. Don't be the dramatic actress or actor, cuz no matter what you think, you are not in a movie and you need to trust the people around you. Everything's going to be ok if you trust in God and in the friends and family he gave you. That's why they're there you knucklehead.

You can't change the past so get over it, and try to make the future different. Plan ahead, but live for the moment.

And one last thing, if you're planning on being my friend, then BE MY FRIEND. Don't make any promises you aren't going to keep. Trust me, I'll be better off without you if you do.

This is not directed to anyone in particular. It may contain somethings I want some people to know, but not completely. It's also just my feelings...Please don't get offended by them. This isn't directed towards you.

4 comments:

Jaina *JJ* said...

the answer to your email "heh" is no. and i totally get this, i feel somehwat like this. people should BUT OUT. it's not their buisness how i dress/act/live. if you think theres something wrong, confront me. dont CORRECT ME. tell me what you think. right? :) <3 love you essey. we totally connect sometimes. teehee

Sophie said...

phew ok good, thanks jaina. =) i just get so annoyed when people handle things for other people, because how the heck are you supposed to grow and become stronger if people are trying to tell you what to do all the time?! friends are there to support you and help you but not control you like you said.
haha we do connect. =)
i love my spazztic purple streak jaina.

Anonymous said...

totally agree with you!!!!!!!
people in school think that just because I'm not like them, I have huge gigando problems in life! NOT TRUE!!!!!! I didn't laugh at a joke that made fun of Christians in science class and everyone stared at me!!!!!! AAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
u rock my face off sophie!
you always know how to put into words what i'm feeling!
P.S. I used wwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaayyyy too many exclamation points in this

Jaina *JJ* said...

exactly essey! i mean, if you depend on these people for your whole life, what would you do if you were alone? and who would you be, because im sure you wouldnt be you...you'd be who they molded you too be. --it really irks me in school when people are constanly asking me if im ok. i mean, i guess i know its because they care...but if i ave a problem i'll go to them! i'm an independant individual. not that i dont need my friends, i do! very much. but..i just want to take care of myself. <3 :) (that should've been a post...hehe)